recently i heard from my maternal grand father about his marraige experiences. it was interesting indeed. the marraige was finalised by the father in law of my grand father's father-in-law. my grand father was working in india post about fourty years ago and living in lal mohamed street,triplicane,chennai. as i said the father-in-law of my gradfather's father-in-law, came from his village of chennai city to finalise the marraige ceremony by giving some cash for new clothes for my grandfather and also the travelling expenses to the marraige hall in the village. at that time my grand father has not even seen my grandmother. my grand father from curiosity went to the village where my grand mother was staying and posed himself as a brother of the prospectie bridegroom and had lunch and returned to chennai.